How We Work Santa Barbara Matchmaker Dating Coach

How We Work

How Matchmaking Works

Hiring a matchmaker allows you to relax while someone else does the work. While you tend to the business of your busy life, we get to work carefully selecting, screening and interviewing your potential dates. In essence, we date them first to see if they are a good fit for you. We will not make an introduction until we feel we have a potential partner who embodies everything you are looking for. At Amador Matchmaking we believe that personal service, hard work and integrity are the keys to exceptional service. We are dedicated to doing what it takes to find your special someone – the love of your life.


Getting started

When we receive your inquiry about becoming a client, we will contact you to discuss our services, get to know a little bit about you and learn what your dating goals and expectations are. If we feel you are a good match for our company, we will schedule an in-person interview. If you join our database as a free member, we will contact you when we feel you may be a match for a client.

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Becoming a client

The initial interview usually lasts about 1.5 hours. Once we’ve met in person and mutually agree to move forward, you will sign a client agreement based on the particular matchmaking package that best fits your needs.

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Becoming a free member

Our membership pool is made up of successful, attractive, commitment-minded singles who would like to be considered as matches for our clients. There is no charge to become a member. Although there is no guarantee that you will be matched with a client, many of our members are matched. We will contact you when we have a client who is a perfect fit for you.

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Becoming a VIP member

Do you want to stand out from the hundreds of other free members in our database? Attend one of our private workshops or choose a qualifying one-on-one coaching package and you will be added to our “VIP Priority List” as a potential match for our matchmaking clients. This is the list that we consult first and you will be a member for one year.

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Client Introductions

Once we’ve identified and screened a potential match, we will call you to discuss why we feel this is a good person for you to meet. If you wish to move forward with an introduction, we will arrange a date on your behalf.

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We ask our clients and their matches to give us feedback after each date. This enables us to better understand what you are looking for and to refine our search. In addition, feedback provides you with valuable insight that may help you to become more successful when dating in the future. This is a rare opportunity to learn how you are perceived on a date.

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