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Why Hire a Matchmaker?

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1. What you’re doing just isn’t working

You have no problem finding dates on your own, but you’re just not meeting the right type of people. Maybe you’re devoting a lot of time to online dating or going to bars but haven’t met accomplished, educated, honest, commitment-minded singles. Maybe you keep dating the wrong type of person, choosing poorly for yourself. Whatever the reason, your current approach to dating just isn’t working. Don’t worry, we can help!

2. Personal service

We believe that hiring an expert - a personal matchmaker - is the best way to optimize your time and find a compatible match. Our approach is focused on your individual desires. We don’t rely on personality tests like many big dating services. We form relationships with our clients and their potential dates. When we make matches, we use old-fashioned intuition and our extensive experience to understand what each person is looking for in a partner. Nothing can replace the personal touch that we offer.

So, while you tend to the business of your life, we get to work finding, screening, investigating, and personally interviewing your potential dates. In essence, we “date them first” to see if they are a good fit for you. We will not make an introduction until we feel we have a potential life-partner who is everything you are looking for. We won’t waste a minute of your valuable time.

3. We are experts

Our savvy clients understand the value of hiring an expert; whether investing in a stock portfolio, buying real estate, or recruiting the most qualified employees for their businesses. 

It’s a logical decision for them to engage a trusted professional in their quest for romance and lasting love. 

As your matchmaker, we become your personal agent - your dating headhunter. While you go about your busy life, we get to work to narrow down the search; carefully selecting, screening and interviewing high caliber, quality singles you will be excited to meet. We work hard to find the perfect fit.

Unlike other companies, we are not limited by our client base. In addition to introducing you to other Amador Matchmaking clients, we will carefully check our extensive membership database of attractive, successful, commitment-minded singles to find matches who meet your criteria. We will also actively recruit, network, and may even advertise (discreetly of course) to find a perfect match for you. 

We will do whatever it takes to find exceptional matches with the specific qualities you desire. 

Our goal is to provide excellent service – and ultimately to introduce you to that special someone, the love of your life.

4. We date them before you do… and they have to dazzle us!

Each potential match is required to meet with us for an extensive face-to-face interview. We dig deep; taking the time to know each person intimately in order to facilitate excellent matches for our clients. We know that you’re a great catch and can be selective about who you date. Therefore, your potential dates have to dazzle us before we will consider introducing them to you… and we’re not easily impressed!

5. Valuable Feedback

We ask our clients and their matches to give us feedback after each date. This enables us to better understand what you are looking for and to refine our search. Feedback provides you with valuable insight that will help you to become more successful when dating in the future. This is a rare opportunity to learn how you are perceived on a date.

6. Put your best foot forward

Image consulting and date coaching

Once we find you an amazing match, we want you to make a great impression! If you would like our advice on your appearance, dating etiquette or any other aspect of dating, we are here for you. Your success is our success, so we will do whatever it takes to make sure you find the love of your life!

7. Safety

Your safety is paramount; therefore we provide background investigations to ensure you meet safe, quality individuals.

8. You will meet commitment-minded singles

When people have paid for the services of a matchmaker, or taken the time to meet with one personally, they have a vested interest in finding a life partner. Big dating services will represent clients looking for casual dates. We won’t. Our clients and free members are ready to commit to long-term relationships.

9. You’re too busy

If you’re like most single professionals, you’re too busy to read through hundreds of online personal ads, email back and forth with potential matches, spend time chatting on the phone or hanging out at bars. 

A lot of work goes into finding a quality person to date. We are happy to do the work for you, only contacting you when we feel great about a mutually enjoyable first date. 

10. You are reserved or shy

By nature, you’re reserved or shy and prefer to meet someone in a more intimate setting. You don’t enjoy “meet markets” like the bar scene. You are wary of risking your identity doing online dating. 

We get it! We will only suggest dating partners we’ve approved and discussed in advance with you. 

11. Deception

One of the most common complaints about online dating is that people misrepresent themselves. When we arrange a date for you, there will be no unpleasant surprises. We offer background checks which verify identity and age. We personally meet with everyone we work with to ensure that they are sincere. We have a zero tolerance policy about lying. One lie, and we will not represent a client or member. We will make sure you are meeting sincere, honest, high-integrity people.

12. Confidentiality

News travels fast and gossip spreads like wildfire. Why post your picture on-line when you can be discreetly represented by us? No one needs to know about your dating life but you. Your privacy is our priority.

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